Jump to content

Icewolf

Members
  • Posts

    6,113
  • Joined

  • Last visited

Blog Comments posted by Icewolf

  1. Just because there is no justification from the war does not mean there are no reasons for it and it is divorced from political reality. There are politics in this game and lots of alliances competing to push their own agenda.

    It so happens that DS have managed (better than invicta) to reach a place not before reached in CN history-namely the place of having the ability to act against certain alliances without needing a justification. I find this very interesting as there are two possible actions for those that dislike this;

    1. Fight back, and hope to win support for their cause on a moral ground

    2. Not fight back, and hope to build a new sphere around a moral cause.

    Or 3. Do nothing and slowly fade from significance

    Options 1 or 2 both involve actual political work (so the power of persuasion and the power of ideology rather than cold gameplay and a fake justification). That sounds fun to me as we get to see a proper upfront consequence of conflicting morals.

  2. Except that subjectifying ones self is just part of western female culture. Whether the women realizes she's doing it or not, she does. But another thing to keep in mind is the difference in male and female mentality. Men are more visually stimulated than women. Hence why nearly all of us subjectify ourselves for social gains. Even without realizing it.

    I am fairly certain that subjectify is not a word, so.....what?
  3. Thank you, but what do you mean by "I was thinking less"?

    In the earlier texts it reads very much like a collection of sentences that just happen to be on the same page. This suggests you were thinking too much about each individual sentence rather than on the entire paragraph or chapter in one go, whereas this text flows much better suggesting you were less hung up on each sentence.
  4. I thought it was more to do with the fact that training yourself to always let the anger out rather than "bottle it up" is a bad idea as it trains you not to control your anger.

    So if your punching bag is a way of letting anger out then it can be a bad thing as you associate fists with dealing with anger.

    On the other hand, exercise is generally good for peoples mental well being and releases endorphins making you happy, so if exercise is a way to extinguish the anger that is good.

    I definitely know that I was in a less good frame of mind when I injured myself and had to drive to work as I lost the 25 minutes of exercise on the way to work that helped relax me for the day ahead.

  5. One point of argument is to test your ideas against someone. If you cannot defend your ideas you need to think again. The need to think again does not automatically mean accepting your opponents point of view-if you are arguing an orange is green against someone who insists it is blue, the fact they have demonstrated it is not green does not mean accepting it is blue.

    The key to see if you have been successful in getting someone to rethink their ideas is in the next argument they may well come back with a moderated position or a different stance-those are the changes that you can actually see-people never admit they are wrong upfront.

    This is often one of the hardest things to manage in a workplace-creating an environment where someone can produce an idea, have it challenged, and then accept that it is wrong and not be thought less off or be resentful that it was wrong. And on the flipside people need to feel they can raise challenges, and even if that challenge is overcome and the idea wins out they are not looked down on for having raised that challenge.

  6. Gold is valuable in terms of the fact that it is used in electronics. It is also valuable in that people will pay for things that look pretty, and it is shiny. Its value as a currency though is just that, a medium of exchange. Its price actually fluctuates as much as most other currencies do against each other, so it is not even an especially good currency. Particularly as most currencies have at least nominal interest rates rather than charging you to hold them.

  7. I like gift cards because:

    1) it makes me spend money on myself (when otherwise I'd just save the cash)

    2) I've not had a gift card with those problems for years

    I got some money for Christmas, and there is a simple way to ensure you spend it on something. I was given money by my Grandmother who likes to know what her Grandchildren are up to. As she has given me money, I will now find something to spend it on and write her an email or letter (probably an email but she is not the best with technology) and say what I spent it on, and a general update on life.

    As I know I am doing that it gives me an incentive to have spent it on something worthwhile.

    Better idea: Don't fuel this ridiculous consumerist holiday, and give no material objects. Give love and give this time of year back its true purpose and meaning. :)

    There is a difference between gift giving and consumerism. Gift giving is a way to enrich others lives in your friends and family. I do this by trying to find things they would not normally buy themselves, such as books by authors I know they haven't read, or topics they don't know, or types of sweets they haven't eaten etc etc.

    I know others who have given paintings they have made for the occasion as gifts, or other handmade items.

    Alternatively, if you want a really interesting challenge invite those you exchange gifts with to shop on a budget of £3 and you will do the same and see what you can get each other.

×
×
  • Create New...