If I had to guess, because we do have some abrasive personalities, people think if they spin stories it will be believable. And sometimes, for brief moments, they're right about it being believable, until we have to come in and lay out the complete picture. About 80% of it comes from obsessive former boognish members, and about 80% of it (not necessarily a one-to-one overlap) is people HARD projecting their own toxicity onto us as some sort of... cover story, or something? Seriously, the amount of times that it turns out the people accusing were, themselves, wallowing in filth... it's stunning at times.