I'm sorry, when was I licking NPO's ass? TTK doesn't exactly have a history of that, and it's not something I'm hoping to start. I said upthread that I don't really have a here side, and that I hope you guys have fun.
Maybe TPF is/was an exception to this, but most of what you and others have said about NPO's tech:infra situation could apply to almost all alliances, having more nations means it is more difficult for the leadership to try and get everyone tech trading/growing properly, which potentially means plenty of mid tier nations who haven't built their nations in the best way or who aren't the best prepared for war.
I understand the desire to make fun of your enemies during war, but when someone who is neutral comes along and points out logical flaws in what you have said it doesn't mean they are for the enemy, just that that can be a fairly critical, cynical person. I did essentially the same thing to an NPO nation on this thread who was arguing the other side illogically.