Ingame, you can't except by deleting your nation and making a new one.
On forum, we only edit names that don't match a ruler or nation name to make them match.
edit: thedestro
Yes and yes.
She will need to fill in a nation sitting request because otherwise you could get deleted for multiple accounts on the same IP/computer/network/whatever.
And when she's logged in from there, you won't be able to aid trade etc.
If he doesn't play and no one in his family plays (or in his house, you know, the whole one nation per player/computer/IP/network/etc thing), it's fine.
Make sure you tell him just logging in isn't enough to stay active, he needs to collect taxes too :lol:
The only way to get a new ruler and nation name is to delete your current nation (don't collect taxes for 20 days or use the delete nation link in the left menu). We can't change the names for you.
Not really.
You can't accept it, you only have the offer, not the trade itself.
Now, if you'd rather have that trade than one of your current ones, you could cancel/delete one of your current trades, and you could accept the new one.