I never claimed that they were; rather, that it is a good idea to get the opinions of others who have had a chance to experience the same when forming an opinion on the matter.
In your case, the thing to consider is this: if 600-700 people (given, not all active, so say, 200 active people) in an alliance are all willing to obey a leader, and since his appointment there have been little to no complaints (in fact, he has very wide approval in and outside of the alliance), then it was probably your experience that has biased you.
edit - added the quote for context since another post was between ours.