No it's not hard, but NPO doesn't really have a say in the terms. There are two options: Accept them or Deny them, there is really no negotiation to be had.
You guys really have some !@#$@#$ class don't you? You feel the need to troll a incredible asset to this community in his goodbye thread?
See ya Lee, it's been nice knowing you, good luck in whatever it is you plan on doing.
Damnit Hoo, Where am I going to get my free vouch to join Nemesis now?
It sucks you have to go man, you are one of the greatest leaders to ever play this game, thanks for all the advice you have given me since I've known you. Good Luck in RL.