He's new guys. Leave him alone.
Xander, the best thing you could possibly do right now is join an alliance. They can teach you how to play the game and help you grow into the best nation possible.
P.S. if anybody tells you to join FAN, GOONS, \M/, Ge[N]MAY, GATO, or Golden Sabres, please ignore them. They are just trying to get you attacked (for their own sick amusement).
P.S.S. Take some time to read through recruitment messages that people send you. There are many, many great alliances to choose from. Don't jump to join the first guy to offer money, most of the time that alliance will only end up being harmful to you in the long run.