You dont have the time to, "click link, register on forums, request membership, change AA", but you have the time to start multiple topics, respond in multiple topics and debate on whether or not you should get help or not.
Then when someone offers you help/advice you have the audacity to insult them by claiming that you don't have time to read it. You then pick and chose what you want to hear out of their post. I'll be honest with you, you aren't winning any friends or convincing anyone. You should probably elaborate a little on the "why you have several alliances in you AA over the past 3 days part." That would make people more liable to help you out in your current situation.
However, I dont see anyone helping you if you aren't willing to join an alliance.