Well I wish both alliances to be the best.. I would like to offer a little advice , Why don't you guys find a larger alliance , join it ,, learn how the inner government works, try to volunteer for as much stuff as possible , build your own nation up in ns ,, and in a couple of months strike out on your own with a better idea on how to create and run an alliance, It seems like the past 2 or 3 months you have tried this time and again and it just isn't working ..
Of course while you are in another alliance keep your nose clean and do the old "SHUT UP AND LISTEN " method !! This is just an option you and all of your friends need to look at. Either way good luck