i couldn't of said it better myself
con·tra·dic·tion
1.
a. The act of contradicting.
b. The state of being contradicted.
2. A denial.
3. Inconsistency; discrepancy.
4. Something that contains contradictory elements
dis·band (ds-bnd)
v. dis·band·ed, dis·band·ing, dis·bands
v.tr.
To dissolve the organization of (a corporation, for example).
v.intr.
1. To cease to function as an organization; break up.
2. To separate and move in different directions; disperse
pa·thetic
adjective
1. expressing, arousing, or intended to arouse pity, sorrow, sympathy, or compassion; pitiful
2. pitifully unsuccessful, ineffective, etc. a pathetic performance
3. of the emotions