I hate to be the guy but my reply will be in the form of a comic strip and some screenshots.
The main violation is Coltaine joining AM to hit us. Correct me if I'm wrong but last time I checked the war had been going on for more than 12 days.
And as for the aid part. Well, we do have an actual system for tech deals. If the situation was different and our relations a bit healthier I think Galerion might actually let you in on it, maybe even let you licence the system.
Then again, AM seems to have a system for actual war aid.
Link to AM aid screen, clickay!