To start let me just say: Unghhh, not the true paradoxian crap again.
Your post is long so my answer will be so too, though it wont have as nice flow, and be so nicely written, as yours since I am just trying to answer your different points/questions.
As someone who was here back then, and even before, and is in TOP right now I agree with you on the notion that we have changed, an alliance is never static. In fact, right around the time you joined TOP we had changed so much that people have left cause they thought that we had lost our roots.
And yes we are not all members of Paradox Interactive, but the feeling of fraternity and unity is just as strong. I feel like I belong here, just as I felt that I belong in TOP during your golden days, and just as I felt that I belong in TOP back when we still didnt knew how the game worked and if we would dare to announce our existence.
I was also around when you guys started proclaiming yourself as true paradoxians, and I dont buy for a minute that you dont realize why we would take slight of that. But since you are claiming yourself to be a true paradoxian I might as well ask you the question I've had asked some of the other one, only UG responded though (with "not being in TOP" which I personally found lacking), what are the requirements of a true paradoxian?
I see alot of people on that list that I as well miss and am actually happy that some of them have found new homes. But I cant remember anyone of them stating that the fact that we started to accept non-paradox members was the reason for their leaving, those I remember had very different ones, from not allowing tech raiding to RL issues. And the fact that those alliances that were created due to this exodus had no trouble accepting non-paradox members as well strengthen my belief in that. Not sure about Universalis though, did you have a "only paradox-members policy?, but then again that was an exodus from genesis and not us.
And seriously Frozen, naming ski and lynn as "carriers of the paradoxian flame" while raving about people not from Paradox Interactive is just stupid.
edit: seriously frozen, stop that seniority crap, dr dan has actually been longer in TOP than you