So lets see if we have this straight
1) Polaris supposedly sold out NSO in the past. This angered Lennox.
2) During an online chat, Dajobo (2nd in command for Polaris) spoke with Lennox laying out concrete plans on how someone could infiltrate VE or a second related alliance.
3) Lennox took the whole conversation to VE
4) VE worked with Lennox to provide materials to send to Dajobo
5) Dajobo willing and gladly accepted the materials and was happy to do so.
I think what this all shows is how incompetent and/or corrupt the Polaris leadership is. I mean, they sold out an alliance (which may or may not be true, I can only speak to how Lennox reacted). Then they try to convince someone from the sold out alliance to spy for them in VE. And when they get caught breaking their own codes of ethics and rules (with their hand in the proverbial cookie jar), they cry set-up. The TRUTH here is Polaris would not be in trouble if Dajobo (likely with RandomInterrupts OK as he doesn't take a dump without prior approval) hadn't been SO damn willing to not only agree to such spying but help work out the details on how it could be accomplished and then accept the stolen goods. If they weren't so hypocritical between what they say and their own actions, there would have been no war.
As further proof, one only look at the Polaris communications to all the nations in their alliance. It starts out with a well worded declaration claiming that VE and allies are only interested in Might makes right and so Polaris must stand up for the rights of others (*sniff* brings tears to my eyes). This is followed by later communications where they consistently rally the troops claiming Polaris has the numbers in nukes, nations, and strength (Hey, there's no way we can lose, trust us). And finally, even as close to 70% of their top 50 players head into Peace mode (supposedly to save money so they can help others rebuild later), they encourage the members to keep fighting the fight .. on their behalf. Not once have they communicated the reasons behind the war, or the true numbers in nations and strength, to any members. As a matter of fact, the threaten to punish members who speak on the forums without permission as part of their process to control the nations and try to obscure what is going on.
Polaris used to be a honorable and grand alliance. But as past and current actions show, the leadership has become corrupt, more concerned with their own well being than the alliance, and very willing to compromise the alliances principles if it meets their goals. That's why I'm proud to be a PB POW right now. When I'm lied to right to my face, I had no choice.