LMAO wow. Please point out where I said that you couldn't attack back? Feel free. I'm just letting you know that the longer you continue attacking, the longer it will be assured you won't get peace.
This is not an alliance war, this is a raid. I'm sorry, but that's the way Planet Bob works. If you're a teensy-tiny alliance, you will be raided, unless you have a protectorate. You do not, so you are fair game.
If you think we're the thugs or bigots in this game, then you certainly haven't seen some of the other alliances.