So I hooked up(disclaimer: my definition is making out along with groping) with this girl last weekend who claimed she was a college freshman. I met her at my friend's dorm party and she also claimed she was from another college and just visiting. The next day I came across her Facebook where I then found out she was actually a high school senior (Can't complain about that as I've exagerated my age and school year in the past) I chatted with her a bit on AIM where she released some intresting tidbits about herself.

-I was the third guy she'd hooked up with that night

-She was very proud of this fact

-The second guy she'd hooked up with had a girlfriend, who walked in on them. She'd barely been able to escape

-She saw this as no big deal

-She claimed she did this every time she was around alcohol

-She said if she hadn't been completely trashed she probably would've slept with me (Although I'd like to be arrogant and attribute this to my dashing good looks and charm, I'm pretty sure she would've slept with anything with a pulse at her point of inebriation)

-She was going out clubbing that night where she told me she planned to "rinse and repeat"

A few hours later I received a text from her inquiring why we had chatted. According to her, I was one of her few hookups (or sexual partners) who had talked to her afterwards (Although its hard to gauge intent behind a text, it appeared that she expected to not be talked to). My own reason was because I felt it was common human decency to keep in touch, but based on what she had said earlier, I threw caution to the winds and replied that it was because I was interested in becoming **** buddies.

She was not happy with this. She called me up and let me have it, accusing me of treating her as an object and not as a human being, and calling me every name in the book and saying I had gotten her hopes up for a relationship and dashing them (which was honestly news to me as she had not expressed anything like this) I replied that if she saw herself as an object then everyone was going to damn well treat her as one. I also inquired that if she had wanted anything beyond **** buddies she shouldn't have come off as a total slut. I was immedately hung up on.

I hate to be stereotypical but many Long Island girls seem to be like this. They want respect but consistently deny themselves that by acting like this. Granted, many guys are not much better, but this was pretty blatant. Oh well it's no real loss.