Lol you declared war on one of my nations .. Neutral, unprovactive approach my ass ... hahaha
Regardless, this isn't the place for discussing your gaffes, nor does it really need to become another lesson in basic diplomacy for you to ignore (again, declaring war on someone's nation "to get their attention" is intrusive, aggressive and anti-diplomatic no matter how you spin it or what reasons you claim for doing it -- does zero in garnering legit clout for attempting to weasel yourself uninvited into negotiations that have nothing to do with you).
:)