I think the Greenland Republic would be the right place for you.
We are an honorable alliance and respectful to everyone. We do not allow tech raiding of innocent unaligned nations. If our members get blood thirsty, we find agressive unaligned for them to attack. At the moment we have 6 active 3 on 3 tech deals, which means that around 1/3 of our alliance takes part in the deals. And do not worry, nobody will ask you to be a bank nation.
We also believe that Sporks>F**ns