[quote name='Locke' timestamp='1295121506' post='2576252']
I must ask you...is that so wrong? I am going to, as much as it pains me, for the moment assume you are absolutely right; Arrnea did everything you accused him of, he killed your family, and burned down your house while he was at it. Okay, starting from that perspective...did he [i]have[/i] to tell you his deeper reasons for leaving? Did he [i]have[/i] to give more than 12 days notice of his intention to leave? Did he [i]have[/i] to step down a single moment before leaving the alliance? People can leave for whatever reason they want, and indeed do; it's not like an alliance is a prison. Twelve days is plenty of notice, considering the norm is closer to one. And as for stepping down, until he leaves the alliance or chooses to pass on his responsibilities of his own volition. Hell, I've only left one alliance in my life, gave notice a day or two before leaving, resigned from my position as Chief of Staff exactly when I resigned from the alliance, and they still love me; why is it you are seemingly the only one who has a problem with this?
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This is a hard thing to compare. If we continue going with the fact that Arrnea did these things, is what you did the exact same? There seems to be more to it than just resigning and leaving. Even if it was the same, different people put in the same exact situation sometimes take things differently. It's the same reason other alliances post and say they would have handled this some other way.