1. If you refuse to pay reps, you aren't being "forced to disband". You're just unreasonable. There is no rule that states an alliance has to give you whatever terms you deign to accept, and if they don't then they're the New Hegemony.
2. You can't be forced to disband. If such a thing were possible there would be no FAN, there would have been no Vox coming into the Karma War. You can be put in a !@#$%* situation, and such a situation may make disbandment an attractive option, but you cannot be forced to disband.
3. Carlos Accord jokes aren't funny.