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Couple of thoughts on homosexuality.


Kalasin

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Some of you may know that I’m an evangelical Christian, and that I therefore believe that the Bible is infallible. Traditionally, evangelical Christians condemned homosexuality as a sin. Thus, I have wrestled with the issue of homosexuality for some time, because I’m a part of both the Christian sub-culture of New Zealand and the wider New Zealand culture, which often conflict over this issue.

Essentially, although I still haven’t ultimately made up my mind about this, I have been slowly coming to the conclusion that the act of homosexual sex is indeed wrong. This is for several reasons. I believe that men and women are equal yet complementary partners, and that this partnership is best suited to raising children. The problem is, we live in a fallen world, and thus there are many distortions in nature, which include homosexual attraction. However, this, in my view, is not the way that the Creator intended us to live. This is reflected by the rise in AIDS and other sexual diseases which came about because of the sexual revolution of the twentieth century, and the disproportionate rate of sexual diseases among homosexuals in comparison with heterosexuals. This, in itself, is reason enough to have serious questions about whether or not homosexuality is right or wrong.

The primary purpose of this little article is not actually to debate about whether or not homosexuality is sinful, however. It’s rather to make the point that there is a spectrum of people who hold that homosexuality is sinful. On the far end of the spectrum you have the Westboro Baptist Church, who apparently walk around in the southern United States with placards reading ‘God hates fags’ and the like (I don’t live in the US, so I don’t know how big they actually are.) In my opinion this is absolutely obscene. It’s so incredibly insensitive and unloving, and it’s totally contradictory to what Christ commanded. And here we reach the other end of the spectrum.

My own position is that every human being is ultimately equal, and equally loved by God, regardless of what their sexual orientation is or what they have done. Even if homosexuality is a sin, it doesn’t really make much difference, because ultimately everyone is equally filthy in God’s sight, and in equal need of forgiveness. Thus, the homosexual is no worse to anyone else. God’s love is unconditional. It’s not dependent on a person’s sexual orientation or anything else. This sort of love has nothing to do with liking anyone, it’s merely a deep care about a person and a desire for their welfare. Christ calls us to love everyone in this way, which admittedly I really struggle with, being a fallen human being myself. Being perfect is really hard lol! To take an example from CN, I found and continue to find it really difficult to love Cortath after the way he treated me, and I often slip up. This doesn’t disprove the validity of what I’m saying, though.

So essentially, I believe that we should love homosexuals, and treat them with gentleness and respect, while not accepting homosexual activity as right. It’s a difficult line to walk and inevitably there will be times when Christians will be insensitive and hurt people’s feelings, and that is cause for an apology. I don’t believe that my position is bigoted or homophobic, though. Those adjectives are bandied around far too widely. Use the term strictly for those who merit it.

And as one final aside, we need to love the Westboro Baptist Church lot too, even though they may be hateful and angry. Think about it.

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You can take the wolf out of the wild but you can't the wild out of the wolf, as the saying goes. My point is that, despite your falling away and recent guilt wracked conversion, that you haven't provided any thoughts original to the subject and are only thinking inside the paradigm provided from your upbringing. No surprise, really, considering that the majority of people given the information you have would come to the same conclusion. We are remarkably good machines in that respects. The fact that you fell away and returned to a comfortably familiar dogma is a frequently related story.

Congratulations on urging love to everyone, but perhaps you should spend more time thinking about what really is a sin and why it is so, and see if what to consenting adults do actually falls into that category. Then ask yourself what justification or reasoning would ancient jews have for making such a pronouncement.

Truly original thought rarely occurs, particularly in places like the Cyber Nations Forums. When I write essays at university, it is very difficult to come up with something that nobody has ever said before, and you end up citing what other people have said about the subject before drawing your own conclusions. Thus the fact that my arguments against homosexuality in this blog have been made elsewhere (and perhaps with more eloquence) is not indicative of narrow-mindedness or being sheltered (on the contrary, I assure you, the vast majority of the people I interact with on a daily basis are atheists or atheistically inclined agnostics, and I have had to really think through my religious views in order to maintain them.) The reason I think this blog post is important is because I think most people group 'those Christians who disapprove of homosexuality' into one big group, and quite frankly I don't like being identified with the Hillsboro Baptist lot. I also think my attempt to introduce the concepts of unconditional love to the reader (something which most people don't understand, which is very clear from some of the responses) is quite important.

I am quite serious. You may not think yourself wretched and vile, most people would consider themselves righteous and good. But try to believe me, you really are wretched. Your every opinion is vile. You are corrupted, possibly beyond redemption.

You are revolting. What makes you so horrible is that you think you are just, you think you are loving. You are the opposite of everything you believe yourself to be.

I said in the OP that I really struggle to be who I would like to be. I'm suffering from no delusions when it comes to what I'm like. On the contrary, the very reason that I'm a Christian is that I have done so much stuff that is wrong and I need forgiveness. When I say "all humans are equally filthy in God's sight", I mean all humans, including me.

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Actually, my very belief in God gives me a standard by which to judge what is right and wrong, because what is right is consistent with God's character. The existence of other people's opinions on morality doesn't prove that morality is not objective, just as the fact that some people believe the earth is flat does not make the issue subjective.

Your belief in a higher power is precisely that -- a belief. As your views on morality are determined by your belief that a higher power exists (something which, unlike the roundness of the earth, cannot be verified) and what you feel his perspective of morality to be, your views are not objective on a very fundamental level.

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Your belief in a higher power is precisely that -- a belief. As your views on morality are determined by your belief that a higher power exists (something which, unlike the roundness of the earth, cannot be verified) and what you feel his perspective of morality to be, your views are not objective on a very fundamental level.

For a start, I think it's possible to demonstrate God's existence philosophically, but for the sake of argument, let's assume that God's existence is not able to be proven: you still haven't demonstrated conclusively that morality is not objective.

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I said in the OP that I really struggle to be who I would like to be. I'm suffering from no delusions when it comes to what I'm like. On the contrary, the very reason that I'm a Christian is that I have done so much stuff that is wrong and I need forgiveness. When I say "all humans are equally filthy in God's sight", I mean all humans, including me.

Who you would like to be is even worse than who you are now, but you are suffering from delusions when it comes to what you're like. You can't expect to just include an empty qualifier like "lol I'm fallen" and then go ahead and spout the most vicious hatred disguised in a velvet glove and then think people will accept your humbleness.

If you really believed all humans were filthy in the eyes of God, why do you think yourself better than other sinners? Empty statements to the contrary doesn't qualify if they are preceded by and followed by condemnation of others. Adding the fact that you seem to believe in what you're saying makes you worse than if you were insincere and simply trying to rouse hate for your own petty ego.

You actually believe in the disgusting things you say.

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Freedom of Religion should also mean Freedom from Religion. Why should other elements of society adopt your religions values?

This is me agreeing with TypoNinja. Get your religious laws and rules out of my life.
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Who you would like to be is even worse than who you are now, but you are suffering from delusions when it comes to what you're like. You can't expect to just include an empty qualifier like "lol I'm fallen" and then go ahead and spout the most vicious hatred disguised in a velvet glove and then think people will accept your humbleness.

If you really believed all humans were filthy in the eyes of God, why do you think yourself better than other sinners? Empty statements to the contrary doesn't qualify if they are preceded by and followed by condemnation of others. Adding the fact that you seem to believe in what you're saying makes you worse than if you were insincere and simply trying to rouse hate for your own petty ego.

You actually believe in the disgusting things you say.

I'm not advocating "vicious hatred" towards homosexuals or anyone else. I'm advocating kindness and care towards everyone, including homosexuals. I have stated that I'm not better than anyone else, and you have rejected that as insincere based on the fact that I believe that other people are sinners too, which is simply not a logical argument. I can only re-iterate that I honestly, truly see myself as perhaps the greatest of sinners (a phrase that true Christians have often used to describe themselves, incidentally) and if you don't believe that's how I feel then there's not much I can do to convince you.

(As an aside, I really don't understand how anyone can conclude that unconditional love towards people even though they do wrong is "vicious hatred". I thought it would be an easy matter to explain to non-Christians the ideas about love for people who do wrong.. after all, that's the entire basis for loving your enemy. Can you honestly not see that loving people regardless of what they have done is the best way to live? I've never actually discussed this precise topic with non-Christians before, because it's something God only explained to me recently, and I'm rather surprised at the depth of spiritual blindness tbqh, but I suppose you'll think I'm talking nonsense.)

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