You're Just As Bad As That Other Guy Who Is Also Bad....
Here's how the game is played:
- Alliance X makes a mistake of some kind.
- Someone from Alliance Y calls them on it.
- The second individual is reminded of when they did something, possibly by someone unrelated to Alliance X.
- The above individual is castigated over something else.
- Eventually, you have a loop of people all pointing and calling each other names.
- Lather. Rinse. Repeat. Always repeat.
This would seem to be one of the favorite games these days. So prevalent has it become that I found myself typing a variation of it earlier today. At Bob Janova, of all people.
(Sorry, Bob.)
Well, no more.
It's time for a reality check, folks.
All of us who have been here a while and who have served in government(s) have made mistakes along the way. At times they may have only affected ourselves or our own alliances. But there have also been times when some of our more spectacular screw-ups have affected hundreds, even thousands, of nations.
All of us have screwed up. (And if someone's going to jump in and say "Hey I haven't" then I can only say you haven't been trying hard enough.)
Our errors inform our future actions. Well, they're supposed to at any rate. When they don't, there's always someone there to remind us of this. (CNers are very good at this sort of 'reminding'.)
But y'know, it would be nice if our errors informed our comments as well, making said comments more pertinent, more cogent, more....anything other than bitter and childish. And hey, we might just learn that the guy who did a bad thing two years ago isn't really so bad after all.
Is it so hard to focus on the matter at hand, whatever it may be? I'm not just asking that question of others, but of myself as well. Do those of us with a lot of history simply have too much baggage that we refuse to let go of?
Two monks on a pilgrimage came to the ford of a river. There they saw a girl dressed in all her finery, not knowing what to do since the river was high and she did not want to spoil her clothes. One of the monks took her on his back, carried her across and put her down on dry ground on the other side. Then the monks continued on their way.However, the other monk, after an hour or so, started complaining, “Surely it is not right to touch a woman; it is against the commandments to have close contact with women. How could you go against the rules for monks?”
The monk who had carried the girl said, "I set her down by the river an hour ago, why are you still carrying her?"
When I find myself acting like the second monk, I feel stupid.
So enough with the ancient history. If it isn't truly relevant, then save it for that book about CN you've always wanted to write. (*cough* loser *cough*)
Don't go on and on about a "pattern of behavior." Save that for the DoW, if you've got the stones.
Finally, there is one point that needs to be made with regard to anyone who claims the moral high ground. I've said this before, but it may bear repeating:
We are all monsters. If we are not monsters, we are friends with monsters. And if we are not friends with monsters, we are food for monsters.
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