You see, Alex, the problem is that your "allies" aren't even on the field of battle with you, but mostly turtling or cowering, and leaving the dirty work to you and RnR.
I mean, look at this guy here--Necoho of Margate, NPO's Imperial Officer of Foreign Affairs.
http://www.cybernations.net/nation_drill_display.asp?Nation_ID=543696
I've been at war with him for 4 days now, and he's been active within the last three. But he has yet to fire a single shot back at me, even though he has 24 nukes and plenty of tech.
You don't have an issue with that?