Okay This'll be my last post in the thread since you fail to acknowledge reason.
First of all, your claim of 4-5x damage is bull unless you down declared and had targets that didn't fight back. Since your alliance has basically been in anarchy or peace mode the entire last few months, I'm going to disregard this claim. It may be true, but Its certainly not typical.
Second of all, you're not accounting for 1. Ground attacks (3v1 you won't hit all 6 of your GAs while your opponents generally can), 2. NG nations running out of nukes, 3. The ability to pass off targets between rounds, or 4. The NG nations that have run out of money and are not even throwing CMs back at us now.
It basically comes down to this - If you were doing so well, you wouldn't be getting out...
Phrog