QUOTE (Owned-You @ Oct 26 2009, 03:59 PM)

Honor, in it's meaning is simple. Carrying yourself in a manner of good conduct in the eyes of your peers. Many in TE claim to display it, but few do; in the same regard this isn't the venue to display it. Furthermore, as time has progressed the meaning behind honor has slowly been deluded by petty politicians attempting to profit off the good meaning behind it. Therefore, I think anyone who speaks of honor has little awareness of it's true meaning nor truly hold it their hearts as a virtue.
True honor isn't spoken of, it's displayed by the deeds of your actions and determined by the eyes of your peers.
Pretty words, and well meant I'm sure.
Anything which is evaluated by your peers is by definition not internal, though perhaps it might influence internal decisions, which in itself is worse because it means that other people are influencing your personality make up.
A complete person knows that nothing should influence your decisions or actions that doesn't come from inside yourself, and while the opinions of loved ones may make you feel good, feeling good should not be the reason you do anything.
Make up your own mind and stick to it. Ignore everyone else around you unless they are willing to compromise with you in a way which mutually benefits you both. Honor is something you define, not other people. Just like any state of being.
It's well said, but it's your definition of honor and if put on a scale of people's opinions it might be at the top of the bell curve, but it's still an opinion, and it's still a bell curve.