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#1 User is offline   Scott Adams 

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Posted 17 April 2008 - 03:48 PM

Today, I get into school at my abbreviated time, 11:22. I'm currently suffering from a type of Chronic fatigue that developed just over a year ago. It was diagnosed as such but 4 months ago and since I've been working hard to overcome the affects of it.

Upon arriving to school, I saw one of my friends, who promptly asked, "Are you going? Did you hear?" I was confused, due to the simple fact I hadn't come into school until then. I usually go to the movies with him, so I thought some new movie was released. In this case, I was dead wrong.

It was, in fact, the announcement of a long time friend's death. My friend, Max, had succumb to cancer. After an over seven year battle with a mildly aggression strain of Neuroblastoma (which was mainly affecting his spinal cord and nervous system).

When I first met Max, he was taking two full strength adult Advil tablets a day, because his doctor(s) believed he had Juvenile Rheumatoid Arthritis (JRA). He found out only about 8 months later it was actually cancer.

Two years later, he was in remission, all was well. I had done our sixth grade ILP (basically, a project that counted for all classes) on his cancer, elaborately planning a new chemotherapy, as well as a kid in sixth grade could. I researched his cancer for months, reading about chemo treatments and checking in on his own clinical use drugs.

Less than a year later, he had come out of remission, with his cancer reverting back to its original state. For the next five years, from seventh grade to eleventh grade, he would be forced to switch drugs often, due to the adverse side effects. Once his nails grew and then hardened, yet became extremely sensitive, so much so that an accidental tap on a table once threw him into a bout of pain. Most made his hair fall out, some caused digestive problems, the usuals you may have heard of.

Throughout the years, he had growths throughout his body. The most noticeable was a large growth, think two golf balls together, on his left cheekbone. When I last saw him, not but a week and a half ago, he had nearly 15 smaller growths on his skull. His body was once again struggling to fight off the cancer.

I haven't heard if he passed peacefully, but he was in a bad state the last time I saw him. I'm told the cancer fought off so many drugs, that it was declared non-treatable for Max.

So, right now, I'm in a bad place. Although I am, please don't randomly PM or query me, I'm not in a mood for anything like that. Simply, I just wanted people to know why I may snap or not respond to comments and questions. Also, I hope people will read this and know of Max.

My final comments are concerning his accomplishments. While he died at 17, but two months into that, he is known for a couple of things.

1) He was part of a USA today article:
http://www.usatoday....en-cancer_x.htm
That story was written when he was 14.

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Fourteen-year-old Max Levine owes his life to experimental cancer therapies. Yet a drug that helped keep him alive might never reach the market.


Unfortunately, I believe that he was forced off of the trial of that drug, due to the effects on his body.

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Max's mother, Sue Levine, says she's counting on scientists to come up with new drugs. Experimental therapies have given Max two years. Although 131I-MIBG stopped working after six months, it kept the Cherry Hill, N.J., boy alive long enough to become eligible for another experimental drug, which has controlled his cancer for a year and a half.

"The fact that my son is here playing with his GameBoy is a miracle," Levine says. "If my son can give these doctors some knowledge, he's willing to try it."


I hope everyone can take that into account. We think that we, whether in the West or the East, are safe at all times, when really we aren't. We're luck enough to have our health and have insurance or universal health care to protect us, but in Max's case, it was not enough, and will not be enough for many kids like him.

2) Here's a CHOP (Children's Hospital of Pennsylvania) PDF on Max, describing another drug he was using, describing how it affected him and why many with cancer are forced to wander around the country trying to find help:
http://www.chop.edu/...05/oncology.pdf

3) Max had participated a lot in "Alex's Lemonade." Here's an article he's mentioned in (sorry for the format, Comcast sucks):
http://www.comcast.n...5/21/396675.xml

Or the ABC version:
http://abclocal.go.c...=...&id=4187365

Or, Alex's Lemonade's own newsletter (bottom right, mentions our high school as well):
http://www.alexslemo...r%20march06.pdf

4) http://eastside-onli...f-art-students/
This story is actually from my school newspaper. The picture shows Max in a wheelchair.

I don't think his obituary has been published, so that is all I can tell you.

May he rest in peace, Max Levine, 17.



-Sir Galahad


EDIT: Even after toying with them (twice), the links seem to be acting stupidly. They should work, but be prepared for possible 404, or "Can't Find Server" errors, really sorry.

This post has been edited by Justitia: 18 April 2008 - 06:32 AM


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Posted 17 April 2008 - 03:56 PM

I'm truly sorry Galahad.

*Ephriam Grey snuggles.

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Posted 17 April 2008 - 04:07 PM

Truely sorry for your loss mate.

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Posted 17 April 2008 - 04:16 PM

Aww...

*epic-hug*

I am truly sorry, SG.

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Posted 17 April 2008 - 04:28 PM

I'm so sorry to hear this SG... Hopefully he may rest in peace.

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Posted 17 April 2008 - 04:29 PM

*Kaiser Jacob II gives you a big hug

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Posted 17 April 2008 - 04:35 PM

sorry for your loss SG

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Posted 17 April 2008 - 04:42 PM

Sorry for you loss SG, the closest I come to this is a friend I knew only for a couple months (due to it being the first semester of high school) was killed on Boxing Day, though he wasn't a long time friend like your's was. My condolences to his family and to you.

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Posted 17 April 2008 - 05:28 PM

Sorry for your loss SG you may your friend R.I.P

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Posted 17 April 2008 - 05:32 PM

Heartfelt apologies on your loss.

My thoughts are with you and his family.

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Posted 17 April 2008 - 07:19 PM

Neuroblastoma is some tough !@#$. I know a person with it.

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Posted 17 April 2008 - 07:30 PM

Dude, that sucks, I'm deeply sorry for your loss.

*Salutes*

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Posted 17 April 2008 - 08:47 PM

My condolences, and may he rest in peace

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Posted 17 April 2008 - 08:47 PM

I am deeply sorry for your loss.

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Posted 17 April 2008 - 08:49 PM

sorry to hear your lost. both my grandfather on my dad's side and my aunt on my dad's side have died from cancer so im aware of the great pain you are most likely going through... my great grandmother died a very slow death when i was only 13 years old as well.... I hope you are able to recover from ur lost and i hope al lgoes well at the funeral and that he may rest in peace...

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Posted 17 April 2008 - 08:55 PM

I'm sorry for your loss. Losing friends and loved ones is never easy. And words seldom help.

You honor his memory.....

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Posted 17 April 2008 - 09:24 PM

:mellow: This is slightly awkward because I was reading funny epitaphs before I came here.

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Posted 17 April 2008 - 11:47 PM

There are few things that someone can say in a situation like this, especially in text. I did not know your friend, and I'm not a great friend of yourself personally.

But nevertheless, I know the difficulties of losing a loved one. Never one so close as the one you seem to have lost, but a loved one nonetheless. You have my condolences, and I really do sincerely hope you come out of this feeling better.

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Posted 18 April 2008 - 05:37 AM

sorry for your loss...

i had a grandfather lost from cancer, died when i was 7, though i didnt know him that well...

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Posted 18 April 2008 - 08:29 AM

Link to facebook group in his honor.

Also, if you want to ever donate, I believe the fund in his name goes through Alex's Lemonade Stand.

Thanks to everyone who gave their condolences.

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